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Elon Musk Reignites Debate On A Closed Gang Rape Case, Bringing Back Painful Memories

05/01/2025

Love is deeply personal and can be expressed in many ways, but the key distinction between love, consensual intimacy, and abuse lies in consent, harm, and coercion.

Abuse occurs when there is coercion, manipulation, or harm—whether physical, emotional, psychological, or financial. It happens when one person exerts control or power over another in a way that causes distress, fear, or injury.

Even in relationships where rough dynamics (e.g., BDSM) exist, informed, enthusiastic consent is crucial. Without it, or if a person is unable to give consent (due to age, intoxication, mental state, etc.), it becomes abuse.

'Girl D', was still a young girl from the UK. As a minor which means she cannot consent, she had endured some of the most brutal abuse someone could ever experience.

The case is already concluded, but billionaire Elon Musk seemingly reignited the debate through his X social media platform.

This story begins with what seemed like a "honeymoon period."

A young girl, referred to as "Girl D" for legal reasons, met Mohammed Karrar, who initially treated her with kindness, showering her with affection and gifts she had never experienced before. She fell for him.

During her early years hitting puberty, Mohammed presence in her life kicked in that raging hormones of her, creating that feeling of desire and bonding.

She said first had sexual intercourse with Mohammed in 2005.

During the she was only 11, she went to an apartment where Mohammed was at "to chill." There, she was given alcohol and narcotics. But soon, their interactions became sexual.

Then, when she excused herself to the bathroom, Mohammed followed her, and raped her there.

"It was like a normal relationship, obviously it wasn't; I was a child. But, at the time, it seemed to be like a normal boyfriend-girlfriend relationship," she later recalled.

The girl said she thought this was part of what a relationship is supposed to be, and because of that, she continued seeing him.

This happened because Girl D moved out of her parents' home at the age of 13, and in her early teenage years, she was in care.

"At the time I thought it was my choice and it was fine, but years on I can see I never had a choice. I said 'no' but I didn't have a say."

For years, she considered him her boyfriend, believing they were in love, entangled inside a weird but genuine relationship. She was also introduced to his younger brother, Bassam, and soon after, the brothers began introducing her to other men.

The Karrar brothers
The Karrar brothers. Mohammed (left) and Bassam (right).

What started as a seemingly loving and caring relationship, spiraled into a nightmare.

Mohammed, who initially believed she was 16, eventually realized she was underage. But he didn't stop, and continued to exploit her.

Another notable rape instance, was during a party.

She told him "no," but he ignored her. At the time, she convinced herself it was her choice because she didn’t resist. "We should do this again," he told her afterward.

Mohammed Karrar often told her he loved her and promised to marry her when she turned 15, even discussing having children with her. She believed him.

"It was literally like a normal relationship but I know now it isn't a normal relationship. I was a child," she said. "He told me he loved me. He said he would take me to Saudi Arabia when I was 15 and marry me. I believed him at the time."

"At the time, they make you think you are loved and, at the time, I enjoyed it," she said. Meanwhile, his brother, Bassam, also began a parallel relationship with her, though she saw him less frequently.

By the time she was 12, Mohammed was regularly raping her.

Over the course of five years, the brothers subjected her to relentless abuse, including repeated rapes, both individually and together. They forced her to have sex with strangers, often in groups, which literally put her at the center of a gang rape. The brothers also transported her to different towns across the country to fulfill their demands, as well as the lust of other men.

Mohammed allegedly used sex toys and numbing cream during at least one time at his Oxford apartment.

Sobbing during her evidence, Girl D claimed that five or six men then came to the location and all raped her on the kitchen table.

Girl D described some of these experiences as "torture sex."

And at parties, where she was told to please the men, Mohammed prepared the girl for an anal gang rape "using a pump to expand her anal passage."

"At one point she had four men inside her," reads the court transcripts, as shared by Musk.

Girl D, of course, refused, believing that loving someone meant not engaging in such acts. But Mohammed pressured her, saying she would "do it if she loved him."

The abuse escalated, and at one point, she was forced to have penetrative intercourse with 11 different men, in a single session.

Mohammed even came up with the idea of putting a "red ball" to gag her and stop her cries.

She was expected to fulfill the sexual demands of the guests. If she resisted, she was restrained and mocked. She was also forced to make videos of sexual acts when she was just 13 years old.

"I just wanted it to stop," Girl D said.

But yet again, she came back to him.

One of the most harrowing moments was when Mohammed instructed her into a car with a man, and that the man drove her to a wooded area and demanded sex. The location was one she had played in as a child, and this affected her psychologically

The emotional weight of the situation overwhelmed her, and as a result of this, Mohammed later beat her so severely that she was bruised and swollen for a month.

Long story short, years before even turning 18, the age where someone is generally considered an adult and no longer a child, Girl D had already become the sexual object of many men, who abused her in a life felt like hell.

The apartment, the silent witness that saw Girl D violated for the first time
The Plowman Tower, the apartment that stood as a silent witness of Girl D’s first experience being violated.

Then, at one time, the frequent unprotected sexual intercourse she had with Mohammed and other men made her pregnant.

Mohammed was furious, and blamed her, saying she should have been "more responsible."

Mohammed turned violent, grabbing her by the throat, and later forced her to have an abortion in an illegal clinic. The procedure was excruciating for the young girl.

Despite the abuse, she felt compelled to stay with him, believing she had to "stick with him through hard times and good times."

But her life continued to spiral out of control.

However, as she grew a bit older, she developed a sense of rebellion.

The thing is, whenever she tried to leave, Mohammed would manipulate her with anger or feigned sadness, and she would always return. Over time, his control over her became absolute. He began injecting her with heroin, and eventually, she started injecting herself with the substance.

She did that not only because of developing an addiction, but also because it was the only quick and easy way to disconnect her from reality; a way for her to numb the pain.

She took the drugs to cope with her trauma and her suffering.

Her rebellion struck again when she began stealing from Mohammed, taking around £9,000 in cash, claiming that it was done because he "sold her without permission."

The apartment, the silent witness that saw Girl D violated for the first time
The bedroom witnessed one of the most depraved things Girl D suffered from her abusers.

What Girl D experienced is called 'trauma bonding.'

It can be referred to as falling in love with or developing an emotional attachment to an abuser, particularly in situations involving cycles of abuse, manipulation, and intermittent reinforcement (alternating between kindness and cruelty).

Because Mohammed frequently switched between periods of affection, kindness, or apologies to episodes of abuse, he effectively created a cycle of hope and fear. This cycle of abuse—tension building, incident of abuse, reconciliation, and calm—creates a psychological trap that reinforces the bond.

And with the power imbalance, Mohammed held a significant control of the girl, effectively isolating her from outside influence, making her extremely dependent of him.

By shielding her from external influences, Mohammed managed to make Girl D become emotionally dependent on him, especially since Mohammed is her primary source of validation or support.

And because of this power imbalance, the girl's mind inadvertently developed a survival mechanism, in which she created the bond, where she desperately tried to make Mohammed happy, in order to make him show kindness and love, in order to help her cope during the time Mohammed abuse her.

And also because of this kind of bond, the love made her to develop the fear of abandonment, which explains her jealousy after knowing Mohammed was going out with other young girls.

The distorted reality Mohammed gave her, allowed him to control and manipulate the girl's perception of reality, making her to blame herself for everything that made Mohammed angry. And this also made her to consider abuse as normal, as just part of life itself.

This trauma bonding, which is often associated with Stockholm Syndrome, made Girl D believe that abuse and being abused is defined in a relationship.

Mohammed exploited Girl D in many ways, emotionally and psychologically, as well as physically and sexually, all to his inhuman liking and depraved desire.

Eventually, around the age of 15, she managed to cut off contact with the Karrar brothers.

She left, vowing to never return.

The brothers continued harassing her, and even blamed her over the stolen money. But her stance was firm.

But again, as a teenager, Girl D was emotionally unstable, moody, and impulsive.

One day, Girl D made an unexpected return, and came to visit Mohammed, seeking one last answer, demanding him to explain why he did what he did. She confronted him about the abuse she had suffered, and demanded an explanation.

But instead of getting what she was after, Mohammed raped her one last time.

"I remember that I thought he loved me that whole time. I thought I was right but I was wrong. I just felt like my whole life came to an end because I managed to feel that low to go back," she said.

Mohammed Karrar during questioning
Mohammed Karrar during questioning.

Thames Valley Police launched Operation Bullfinch in May 2011 to investigate allegations of historical sexual abuse.

The crime came to light through a combination of factors, including the courage of survivors coming forward, investigative efforts by law enforcement, and the uncovering of patterns of abuse that pointed to a larger criminal network.

One of the key elements in exposing the crimes of Mohammed Karrar and his associates was the bravery of survivors who reported the abuse to the authorities. And in this case, Girl D's decision to speak out about the horrific abuse she endured was pivotal.

Her testimony provided crucial evidence and led to further investigations.

Another victim who came forward, detailed how at one time she drank vodka and smoked cannabis before passing out at the Plowman Tower. During her half-aware state, she recalled how she felt the men were "pulling" at her clothes and heard a voice telling her to "calm down."

She described how "it felt like there were hands everywhere," with one man had his hands inside her trousers, with another man "pulling" her bra.

The victim said that she woke up the next morning, alone, naked, bruised, and in severe pain.

"I had bite marks on me, there was one on my collar bone that was practically bleeding," she said.

She was 15 at the time.

Upon further allegations, Thames Valley Police then launched Operation Bullfinch. This led to the first seven men, which include the Karrars, and another two pair of brothers and other men being convicted. Then, in 2014, one of the gang was further convicted. Then. they launched Operation Spur which resulted in two more convictions., which convicted two more men.

Later, they launched Operation Silk, which resulted in eight men in 2018 and a further two men in 2020 being convicted, along with a man who was further convicted.

In 2015, one man was convicted, and in 2016, two cousins were convicted.

In what is later called the 'Oxford child sex abuse ring,' the group consisted of 22 men who were convicted of various sexual offences against underage girls in the English city of Oxford between 1998 and 2012.

The Karrar brothers
21 of the 22 faces of the devil.

It was only after this, that it's realized that the men groomed children from 11-15 years-old, many of whom came from dysfunctional backgrounds. These individuals were targeted because the men knew that the things they said are unlikely to be believed by others.

The victims were given presents, alcohol, and introduced to crack cocaine and heroin.

After the girls became dependent on the men, the men also made sure that the girls were guarded, and threatened that they and their families would be harmed if they tried to leave.

It's also realized that the girls were raped vaginally, orally, and anally, sometimes by several men, with the horror occasionally lasting for several days at a time.

Some girls were groomed to be prostitutes and taken to guest houses, where men paid to have sex with them. As for the money the girls earned, they all went to the men.

The abuse also went physically, as the girls were subjected to extreme violence, biting, suffocating, and burning.

Girl D said that she was branded with a heated up metal hairpin.

With her buttocks branded, Mohammed marked her as his property, meaning that anyone who wishes to have sex with her, should pay him. The price for that privilege was between £400 and £600 per man.

The girls were also tortured with knives, baseball bats, and meat cleavers, and were occasionally urinated upon.

And here, Mohammed Karrar was the ringleader of the gang, and that he was "brazen in his exploitation".

According to reports, he "acted in the belief that the authorities would never challenge him—something that for years proved to be true."

In all, Mohammed and others have victimized more than 300 children, mostly White British girls from the city of Oxford

With the case closed, many still thought that the girls, all of whom are now women in their 30s, didn't get the justice they deserve.

Lawyer for several victims even said that "nothing has been done" since 2022 inquiry.

With demands from British opposition politicians become louder as more people started expressing their opinions, which were further amplified by a series of social media posts from Elon Musk, the world's richest man and owner of the platform X, things get heated pretty fast.

Musk also accused Prime Minister Keir Starmer, who came to power since July 2024, of failing to tackle the scandal when he was the country's chief prosecutor, saying he was "complicit in the rape of Britain" and must go.

But this kind of exposure wasn't what the victims exactly wanted.

"It just kind of brought everything back up for me," one of the victims said, speaking in an apartment, the only comfort zone she can spend her time without being scared. But she is feeling some gratitude.

While the resurfacing of the scandal forced her to remember the living hell she was forced to endure, the traumatic memories came back. But still, she didn't give up hope, and said that a fresh scrutiny may be able to pressure the government to act.

"It might not be nice to see but it's helpful (as) someone is raising awareness and... standing up for us. I feel like we've been forgotten about."

One of the victims of Oxford child sex abuse ring, self-constraining herself inside her apartment due to fear and her traumatic experience
One of the victims of Oxford child sex abuse ring, self-constraining herself inside her apartment due to fear and her traumatic experience.

Her lawyer, Jonathan Bridge, who also represents other victims, said that most of his clients did not want a new inquiry but wanted the Labour government to implement recommendations made at other investigations, such as providing support for victims and better rules to spot such crimes in the future.

"Absolutely nothing has been done despite all the time and money that was spent on that inquiry," Bridge said.

What made a lot of people at unease, is because of the fact that most of them men who raped the girls are British Pakistani, meaning that they were all migrants to the UK.

Making things worse, many of them are Muslims, which further create Islamophobic and xenophonic stance in the West.

Islam, a religion of peace, is growing in dominancy in the UK, and case like this is making people to stereotype Islam as being hateful and sadists.

Local officials and other agencies had been wary of identifying ethnic origins for fear of upsetting community cohesion, or being seen as racist.

Rape cases cannot be tied to certain demographic or blamed to just a group of people or race or religion. Some of the biggest urban cultural problem tends to stem from the fact that the authorities are letting some people of the society down.

It's worth noting that besides Oxford, there a number of known child sexual abuse incidents in the UK that happened during the span of one decade. They include in cities like Aylesbury, Banbury, Bristol, Derby, Halifax, Huddersfield, Keighley, Manchester, Newcastle, Peterborough, Rochdale, Rotherham and Telford.